Short answer: The best video call activities for toddlers are short, physical, and playful: peekaboo, “follow the leader” movement games, puppet shows, a shared book or song, and a “show me” scavenger hunt. Keep each activity to 2 to 5 minutes and let the toddler lead.
Why are video calls hard with toddlers?
Toddlers have short attention spans and learn through movement and touch. A screen conversation asks them to sit still and talk, which is the opposite of how they play. The fix is to turn the call into a game.
What are the best video call activities for toddlers?
1. Peekaboo and Disappearing Games
Hold a hand, scarf, or stuffed animal over your face, then pop out. Toddlers find this endlessly funny. Try hiding behind the edge of the screen or “losing” your nose.
Tip: Say “Where did Grandma go?” in a dramatic voice before revealing yourself.
2. Follow the Leader
Clap, stomp, wiggle, or spin, and invite your grandchild to copy you. Then let them lead. Songs with motions, such as “Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes,” work well.
Tip: Stand back from the camera so the child can see your whole body.
3. Puppet or Stuffed Animal Show
Use a sock puppet or favorite plush toy to say hello, sing, or ask questions. Many toddlers will talk to a puppet before they’ll talk to a grown-up on a screen.
Tip: Mail a matching puppet or stuffed animal so you each have one.
4. “Show Me” Scavenger Hunt
Ask your grandchild to find something red, something soft, or their favorite toy, and show it to the camera. Then take your turn.
Tip: Keep requests simple, and cheer loudly for every find.
5. Story and Song Time
Read a short picture book like It’s Wowa, hold it close to the camera, and invite your grandchild to point at pictures or make animal sounds. If you have the same book, even better. See our list of picture books for toddlers and long-distance grandparents.
Tip: Finish with a goodbye song so every call ends the same happy way.
How long should a toddler video call last?
Aim for 5 to 10 minutes. End while the child is still having fun, not after they get restless. A short, joyful call will make them more eager next time.
How can you make video calls easier?
- Ask a parent to prop the device at the child’s eye level.
- Keep a basket of call props nearby: puppets, scarves, a favorite book.
- Use good lighting and a simple background.
- Don’t worry if the child wanders off. Wave, sing, and try again later.
Frequently Asked Questions
What do you do on a video call with a 2-year-old?
Play peekaboo, sing songs with motions, use a puppet, or read a short book. Keep it active and brief.
Why does my toddler lose interest in video calls?
Toddlers have short attention spans and prefer hands-on play. Shorter calls with more movement usually help.
How can I make video calls more fun for a baby or toddler?
Use bright props, change your voice, and repeat favorite games. Repetition builds comfort and anticipation.
Should I call at a certain time of day?
Choose a time when the child is rested and fed, such as mid-morning or before dinner. Avoid nap times and late evenings.
